We’ll call her Donna.Donna and I dated in college, and we broke up in college. And then we got back together in college. And then broke up again in—you guessed it—college. We repeated this cycle no less than half a dozen times over the course of earning our undergraduate degrees, building a relationship history so dramatic and tumultuous that even Selena and Bieber would be like, “Y’all need to chill.”Why did we do this to ourselves, you ask? Why did we keep returning to a toxic relationship that took an emotional toll on ourselves and an “oh-my-god-you-two-need-to-go-fight-over-there” toll on our friends?“Obviously, it’s because she was crazy!” is what I would have told you if you had asked me that for at least a year after we called in quits for good. Because after Donna, I met plenty of girls that were “perfectly normal.” But then a funny thing happened. I gained perspective.RELATED: What That One Thing That Always Causes Fights Says About Your RelationshipInstead of continuing to just think Donna was crazy and other girls I met were not, I realized that 23-year-old Julian was treating girls differently than 19-year-old Julian had treated Donna. But I was also treating myself differently…. Read full this story
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